The Best Moment Of Your Life Is Now.

“What day is it?”

“It's today,” squeaked Piglet.

“My favorite day,” said Pooh.

A.A. Milne

Many times you will reminisce on better days past, or on better days to come. You will lose yourself in what was and what may come. And with everything that was and everything that might be, you stop considering everything that is.

The reality is that the best day of your life is really today. You have all the memories of every good day and all the lessons of every bad day. You have all the possibilities that could be tomorrow, that will be defined by what you do Today, NOW.

Every bad experience gave you lessons, and proof that you can overcome anything. Every good experience gave you happiness and eternal memories that can never be taken away. We tend to embellish and exaggerate what was based on the window of our memory. Every tomorrow hold infinite possibilities that provide comfort when our today is good, and hope when our today is bad. Again, our eyes tend to exaggerate or embellish these possibilities.

And were everything coincides in today, now. So don’t waste the Now on what was, or what could be. Live it, turn it into tomorrow’s memory or a lesson. Make it into what defines your future. Remember that every moment, every day, is now.

The Melancholy of the Thin Blue Line.

Memory... is the diary that we all carry about with us.

Oscar Wilde

Last night I sat down with a group of friends, a rather diverse group who many of them have relocated to this area. I guess that very diversity, or the second scotch, led the conversation down the road of melancholy and nostalgia, as we discussed things we missed about our hometowns. By the time they asked me, my answer was simple.

The Thin Blue Line.

Let me explain as you probably have the same confused expression they had at that moment. I have been blessed (or cursed, depending who you ask) with constantly relocating. For me, moving to a new location carries very little anxiety. Some people develop strong roots growing up, roots that tie them emotionally to a specific place. Since I moved around so much, this never really happened. Except for the ocean.

In all my relocations, I have always lived pretty close to the ocean. Till now. Now I live inland, and have no view of the ocean. And for the first time in a long time I can’t see that line between the bright blue sky and the deep blue sea.

We think that we will miss the big things when there is a change in our lives. The reality is that what we will miss will probably be those things we take for granted, those constants we assume will never change. And yet, these are some of the sacrifices we must do to move forward in life.

It’s fine to miss who you were, and the comforts of old memories. Do I miss the bluer sky? The deep sea? Yes. These things defined who I am today. Yet these things must never become anchors keeping me from moving forward.

Take the time to look around at the simple things. Enjoy where you are now. Appreciate it. Soon enough it will all become a memory.